I missed femburton til I got back up here.
…Well Im back.
There may be NONE of you who wondered of my whereabouts for the last 6 or so months and thats cool. I am here now and I WILL be using this a LOT now, harping on stuff and what not and trying to post some original pics and things, not just reblogging my life away.
We teach girls shame. ‘Close your legs!’ ‘Cover yourself!’ We make them feel as though by being born female, they are already guilty of something. And so, girls grow up to be women who cannot say they have desire. They grow up to be women who silence themselves. They grow up to be women who cannot say what they truly think. And they grow up—and this is the worst thing we do to girls—they grow up to be women who have turned pretense into an artform.
|—||Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, TedxEuston (x)|
it looks like she’s had a long day. wanna hug her but i can tell she needs this sleep…
Someone, anyone… Please notify all the men that they have no rights to our sexuality, and can no longer dictate to us how we should or should not use what is ours. Notify them that “slut shaming” no longer works, and that their rape culture is being destroyed. Let them know that they no longer get to tell us what is/not feminine. Let them know that we are reclaiming our sexual identities and that their opinions mean less than used toilet paper. Thank you.
A psychologist walked around a room while teaching stress management to an audience. As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they’d be asked the “half empty or half full” question. Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired: “How heavy is this glass of water?”
Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz.
She replied, “The absolute weight doesn’t matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, it’s not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I’ll have an ache in my arm. If I hold it for a day, my arm will feel numb and paralyzed. In each case, the weight of the glass doesn’t change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes.” She continued, “The stresses and worries in life are like that glass of water. Think about them for a while and nothing happens. Think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt. And if you think about them all day long, you will feel paralyzed – incapable of doing anything.”
It’s important to remember to let go of your stresses. As early in the evening as you can, put all your burdens down. Don’t carry them through the evening and into the night. Remember to put the glass down!
I think this just changed my life.
And this is why Psychology is my major.
is it bad that I want my boss to be healthy, more because I dont want to deal with her not doing her job than me wanting her to have a healthy life? i mean, I’d like for her to have a healthy life and whoop whoop but i do NOT want to have to either take on more of her chores or deal with some new assbag because she has gotten too sick or worse…
has been a tough one.
work was a mother fucker (busy in office and on phone)
i shit my pants at work (and I dont wear under wear, so…)
i passed out in a bar bathroom (donated plasma, didnt drink enough water or eat and i drank half a beer)
started smoking again (made it like two days or somethin)
against the back drop of intense shit going on at home (the on going saga that is me trying to deal with a major mess I made smh)
there were good parts
accomplished some shit at work
and always, the moments when my wife laughs at and with me. i cherish those more than ever
now, the weekend is upon us. the 3 day weekend. Bella has had a fever since last night, there are errands to run and i dont want to go to work on monday (which im not) but i also dont want to not go to work on monday (*shrug*).
hope you all enjoy your weekend